Our hearts are broken with the sudden loss of Willie at only six years old. We will miss him so much. If only we humans gave such unconditional love and devotion to others as Willie did - and with no expectation in return. It was simplistic, pure love every day. We should all love - as Willie did. Imagine the world with that kind of love...
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Thursday, September 28, 2017
We Will Miss You, Willie
Our hearts are broken with the sudden loss of Willie at only six years old. We will miss him so much. If only we humans gave such unconditional love and devotion to others as Willie did - and with no expectation in return. It was simplistic, pure love every day. We should all love - as Willie did. Imagine the world with that kind of love...
Thursday, August 10, 2017
Back-to-School Success
Students can achieve confidence and success when it’s "Back to School" time according to their D-I-S-C personality type:
- "D" types strive for power and control – and to win in all circumstances (sports, lunch line leader, playground boss, student council president). They can be great leaders (if UNDER control) or great bullies (if OUT of control). Help them discover their leadership opportunities (but stay invisible and step back – keeping it “their” idea – while they run the show).
- "I" types relish all-l-l the new friendships and opportunities to show off their latest outfits and backpacks. Surely, all their classmates will be inviting them to their birthday parties soon! (After all, “Isn’t that WH-H-H-Y we go to school?!”) Establish “mini” deadlines for upcoming projects. (The boring and mundane are a pain for these types.) Make it fun (otherwise, they’re done)!
- "S" types are a bit reluctant for change, but look forward to meeting their new teacher, making a new friend, and helping everyone have a nice school year together. (Hmmm, they wonder. “Maybe I should bring extra goodies to share at lunch.”) This type is so sweet. Help them – help others. (They’ll feel good.)
- "C" types planned for this new venture all summer. Quite prepared, they’ve calculated how long it'll take to arrive in plenty of time. Their notebooks are precisely organized with tab dividers and a calendar. They’re organized, but cautious - about the upcoming events. (“Will it REALLY be correct?” they wonder.) Give them time to ponder and plan.
The goal is to understand your own personality type (why you do what you do) – recognize other personality types (why they do what they do), and then work together to build confidence and self-esteem - in Kindergarten - or in the workplace. We never outgrow our personality type, but we can adjust our responses – to achieve true success at any age.
Happy Back-to-School!
(For more information on conflict, motivation, and understanding personality styles, purchase the "Personality Insights for Moms" book on Amazon.)
(For more information on conflict, motivation, and understanding personality styles, purchase the "Personality Insights for Moms" book on Amazon.)
Friday, July 28, 2017
The "Call"
Typically, I don’t answer unrecognizable numbers on my phone,
but caller ID revealed the call was from Washington DC. Considering I had just
received a request earlier that day to speak at a conference in DC, I thought
perhaps they were calling again, so I answered.
Me: “Hello, this is Susan Crook.”
Man (in broken English): “Yes, this is the IRS calling with
very important information. You have a critically delinquent tax debt. It is a
felony. If you don’t pay $6,000 by the end of the day today, you will go to
jail.”
Me: “No kidding. Wow. That’s really scary. What should I do?!?”
I cracked myself up as I placed him on speaker and continued to work on my
computer.
Man: “You will be arrested today. Please allow me to read
you the legal document.” I continued working, contemplating how I would “zap”
him in the end as he read on ... and on ... and on. I could barely understand him
as he persisted with his lengthy legal scare tactic. What a jerk. I semi-prayed,
“Lord, let me at him. Give me the words to put him in his place. Urrrr! (Yes, I
growled.)
Man: “Okay, so to keep you from being arrested today, you
will pay with your credit card, right? I will connect you with the manager now
to arrange for your $6,000 payment.”
Me: “Sure,” I quipped! (Boy, was this guy going to hear a divinely
orchestrated word or two from me!)
But, then I (heard myself) say, “Wait... first, do you mind
if I ask you a quick question?”
Man: “Oh, yes, please go ahead.”
Me: “Does it bother
you at all that you’re scamming people when you call them like this?”
(I anticipated
the notorious, abrupt - click!)
Long pause – I wondered if he had hung up, but then I heard...
Man: “Yes, it does. I actually don’t feel good about it at
all.”
Me (rather shocked): “Then why do you do this? It’s wrong.”
Man (very quiet voice): “I know.”
Me: “You can’t continue. You have to stop. It’s not right. You
see, I’m a Christian. It’s very clear in the Bible that this type of behavior
is wrong.” (Ever wonder why on earth you just said something that made
absolutely no logical sense in a conversation, but you prayed – then these
strange and bizarre words start forming?)
Man: “I’m a Christian, too. I live in India in a small
village with my mom and sisters. We have no money, no jobs. I do not know what
else to do.”
Me: “But, this isn’t the solution. You have to trust that if you do the right
thing, God will provide – somehow, some way. It may not seem even remotely
possible that there’s another solution right now, but God has already got a
plan in place. He’s just waiting for you to trust Him - and believe He will provide a solution for
you. And you might get really hungry. That’s when you say, ‘God, I’m soooo
hungry, but I’d rather be hungry than lie - and cheat - and go against Your
will. You know I’m hungry and you can provide what we need, but until then, I
promise I’ll stay true to you.’ God can and will do a miracle
in your life.”
I asked his name. (I won’t repeat his real name. I’ll use
‘Abdul.’)
Me: “Abdul, you need to make today your last day. You need
to get out of there.” I asked if he had a Bible.
Abdul: “Oh, yes. I read very much of the Bible.”
Me: “Here’s what I want you to do. First, memorize Jeremiah
29:11. Next, read the book of Joshua - in the Old Testament. Joshua had difficult circumstances, yet he was
strong and courageous. He believed God could do anything. God blessed Joshua
for being faithful. God blesses our
faith, too. Sure, you’ll receive a paycheck for this job, but that’s it. You won’t receive God’s
blessings. The paycheck is all you’ll get, but God has greater blessings
planned than a paycheck! You’ve got
to trust Him, though. He. Can. Do. Miracles! Abdul, I’ve gone through very
difficult circumstances in my life, as well. It wasn’t until I truly let God be
in charge and to trust His plan completely – even when it didn’t make sense -
that He brought me out of the pit and toward the life He has planned for me. I
had to do my part first, though. He waited patiently for me, and He’s waiting
patiently for you. He loves you sooo
much, Abdul. He wants to help you. He
will help you! But you have to do
your part. You have to be strong and courageous.”
It was quiet for a long moment. I waited.
Abdul: “You know how you said that I should make today my last day?”
Me: “Yes.”
Abdul: “Well, today is actually my first day here.”
Me: “Then, Abdul, make your first day – your last
day.”
Abdul: “I will. I’m going to leave.”
Me: “May I pray with you?”
Abdul: “I would like that very much.”
And so we prayed together. He thanked me profusely for
helping him to “not do the wrong thing and to remind him to trust God only.”
Before we said goodbye, he assured me he would go to his pastor to pray and
work together toward the plan God will indeed
- place in his heart.
I have to admit, I struggled with wanting to send Abdul
money and food - and everything else he needs. However, I knew it just wasn’t
possible due to the circumstances. I’ve prayed for Abdul quite a bit in the
last few days and God has given me assurance that He will take care of Abdul
and his family. That’s where my trust has to come in, as well.
To be honest, I get pretty fed up with those pesky scammer
calls, but what a blessing that call ended up being – to me. That night, my husband, Dale, said, “I bet one day
in Heaven, Abdul is going to walk up to you and say - thanks for helping me make
the right decision that day. It changed my life.”
We all need people who will help us when we’re going down a
wrong path, making bad choices, convincing (fooling) ourselves that it’ll be
fine. Sometimes we encourage others at the other end of the phone line - on the
other side of the world. And sometimes, we need to encourage others right in
our own backyard; at work, school, church, or possibly (get ready) in the
grocery store check-out line (yes, even when she’s cranky).
Who is God asking you to show a little bit of encouragement (and
mercy) to today? Who can we help redirect - by showing patience and love in a difficult
situation? It’s not always easy. Thank goodness Abdul’s legal document was a
long read. God needed a little extra time to work on my heart before I pounced.
Paul told us in 1 Thessalonians 5:11, “Therefore encourage
one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.” He also
said in Ephesians 4:2, “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing
with one another in love.”
So, I'm thinking love is the key. Who can you love and encourage today? We can make a difference. It's an honor - and a blessing. God wants to use us in everything we do - even in the most unexpected situations.
Be a blessing for someone today. Maybe - it's your "call."
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